The Missing Ingredient: enriching your life through pleasure

What connects us to our bodies and its needs? Outwardly, it might look like movement, nutrition, and adornment, but those things don’t do much for us if we don’t have the main ingredient: pleasure. The great news is that there are actually as many paths to pleasure as there are people in the world!

What brings us pleasure in the bedroom is also what brings us pleasure in life. The Erotic Blueprints™, developed by Jaiya (missjaiya.com), are the language of passion and pleasure. There are five Erotic Blueprints. Here’s a little bit about each and some things you can do to make life more pleasurable:

The Energetic Blueprint™ is turned on by spaciousness, tease, and anticipation. These are the people who are so energetically in tune that they can experience an orgasm without even being touched. The shadow side is that when they are approached too quickly, they can actually shut down. If this is you, your pleasure may lie in putting countdowns to things that you’re looking forward to in your calendar to create anticipation and tease. You may also consider creating space in your calendar to just be.

The Sensual Blueprint™ is turned on by all the senses. This means they have a huge capacity for pleasure. The shadow side is that they can get in their heads, which takes them out of their pleasure. If you think you’re a Sensual, you might bring a little more pleasure into your life by making your space beautiful to look at, burning candles with scents you love, or even putting on music.

The Sexual Blueprint™ is turned on by all the things we tend to think of as sex: nudity, penetration. These are the people who don’t need a highly erotic context to become aroused. The shadow is that they can get so focused on getting to the orgasm that they miss out on all the pleasure of the journey. In daily living, a Sexual might harness their energy for creation and getting things done.

The Kinky Blueprint™ is turned on whatever is taboo for them. They are endlessly creative, but depending on their desire, they can experience shame. A Kinky Blueprint might find ways to play throughout their day by doing things like breaking the rules by going in a door that’s clearly labeled “Out” at the grocery store.

The Shapeshifter Blueprint™ not only wants everything listed in the other Blueprints but needs it in order to feel fully satisfied. They make amazing lovers because of their fluency in all of the Blueprints. The shadow side is that because of that fluency, they can resort to people-pleasing. Shapeshifters would likely take pleasure in playing in all of the different activities listed above.

There is so much talk circulating the embodiment spaces about pleasure and its importance. The Blueprints are not about a short term dopamine fix; this is about a way of life. When you do this, your connection to your body will be out of this world! Curious about your own pleasure wiring? Take the Er0tic Blueprint quiz HERE. Then set up a FREE Joyful Possibilities call with me to get personalized tips that will help you embody more pleasure in your life. BOOK YOUR CALL HERE.